We recently celebrated my daughter’s second birthday party. She is our first child, making it a great temptation to go “all-out” for her birthday party. However, in true frugal form, we resisted the temptation and found ways to make the birthday party simple AND affordable.
My daughter loves Barney and I wanted to have a Barney-themed party for her. However, the cost of the supplies on the party-supplies sites was not something I could justify ($8 for 10 plates? Plus shipping? Really?!) I was able to find bright green and purple plates, cups, tablecloths, and napkins at Wal-Mart for a fraction of the cost. These colors left no doubt what the theme of the party was!
Another tempting place to spend a lot of money is the cake. My daughter has several food allergies, so a store-bought cake is out of the question for her, which automatically saved some money. However, I could have bought a Barney-shaped cake pan that I would have likely only used once for $20. Frugal? Notsomuch. Another item to store that I don’t really need? No thanks. I found other great alternatives, though. Our local library has a huge collection of cake pans for rent. Every character, shape and letter possible. What a great, frugal way to pull off the fancy cake! Because my daughter can’t eat wheat, though, I was concerned about how the cake would come out of the pan. Instead, I opted to print an image of Barney and trace it in frosting on the cake myself. It wasn’t perfect (I don’t by any means have cake-decorating abilities!) but my daughter was thrilled with it and it only cost a few drops of food coloring to make.

Another tip for birthdays is to keep the menu simple and the guest list small. I didn’t want to spend my daughter’s birthday away from her, slaving away in the kitchen. My goal was to celebrate her and her entry into my life and savor every minute with her! Keeping my focus on this idea helped me not to go overboard with appetizers, desserts, and fancy decorations. Limiting the guest list also helps keep food costs down, as well as ensure that you have time with your birthday girl (or boy) and don’t have to share too much!
A few simple and frugal party theme ideas:
1) Crayons- If your child is a little artist, this is very simple theme. Get a paper tablecloth and allow the children to color it. A box of crayons make the perfect party favor-if you plan ahead, you can pick them up at back-to-school sales for about 10-25 cents each! Decorations can be basic primary colors, and for an extra touch, you can cut out crayon shapes from construction paper (super easy!)
2) Summer birthdays-If your child has a summer birthday, take advantage of the outdoors! Doing so can lead to a very low-maintenance party. Water balloons are a great, frugal activity that kids love. The sprinkler is also a fun idea that doesn’t require any cleanup!
3) Cookie Decorating- This requires a little courage because of the mess it can make, but kids love to help in the kitchen! Bake sugar cookies in basic shapes ahead of time and provide different colored frosting, sprinkles and candies to decorate with.
4) World’s Largest Popcorn Bowl-This works great for a smaller party where the kids might enjoy watching a movie together. Have a kiddie-pool? Fill it up with popcorn and place it in the middle of the room for the kids to dig in! Air-popped popcorn is definitely the cheap way to go.
5) Beauty Parlor-For little girls, this is a hit! We all have nail polish we’re not crazy about. Why not use it to paint nails? A tube of lip gloss makes a simple fuss-free party favor. Add some baskets of dress-up clothes for easy entertainment!